By Chux Odoh
You think you have met the perfect guy, but you just feel something isn’t right or the relationship isn’t as smooth as how you want it to be. He’s probably holding back for a reason, you just might be a side chick.
Here are 5 signs to know you are dating a married man.
1. Limited Availability
This is a major red flag. If he’s only available to talk or see you at odd hours, Married men will often talk to you when their wife is away and vanish when she returns.
2. He never invites you over
If you’ve been dating a guy for awhile, and you’ve never been to his house or he is reluctant in when it comes to inviting you over, just know that something is up. He doesn’t want you over because his wife and family are at home and you’ll see the evidence of his other life.
3. He never spends holidays or special events with you
Married men are hardly free to mingle at holidays or special events because getting away from their wives won’t be so easy, it’s easier for him to make up excuses to give his side chick than his wife.
4. He pays for everything in cash
When a man always pay for everything in cash, it could be a sign that he is not trying to leave a paper trail, he probably doesn’t want his wife seeing vacations, hotels and restaurant transactions on receipts or credit card statements.
5. He never wants you to hangout in open places
If your hangout spots are never in common places or the guy you are dating is too picky when it comes to locations, this could be a sign that something is going on, he probably doesn’t want the people that knows him to spot another woman with him or it could be that he doesn’t want his wife to run into him, this is an obvious sign that he has another woman.
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